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Torah Lessons for the Home — Va'etchanan 5784

Выпуск: Torah Lessons for the Home — Va'etchanan 5784. Темы: family_education, relationships_shalom_bayit, health_mind, parsha_commentary. Поисковые термины: воспитание, дети, семья, chinuch, family, חינוך, ילדים, משפחה, шалом байт, брак, отношения, shalom bayit, marriage, שלום בית, זוגיות, здоровье, психология, стресс, health, mental. When that day arrives, one will yearn for the sweet times together and reminisce about the “good old days.” Isn’t it a shame to wait till then to realize how wonderful things Parshas once were, and how much better they could have been if only we had realized at the time? And if it’s somewhere that we have to go together, and I’m not ready, then instead of waiting for me in the car he’ll come back into the house, hang up his jacket, and make himself a coffee or do something else — and then when I’m ready, I have to wait for him to finish whatever it is, before we leave, which sometimes makes us late. Sometimes it’s the wife who’s punctual and the husband who is always late; sometimes it’s a husband who is careful with every cent and the wife who spends money without worrying about balancing the checkbook; and sometimes it’s one spouse who’s more social and enjoys going out and spending time with lots of people while the other would prefer to just stay home. But regardless of whether he’ll accept that from you, people should definitely try to internalize this important message that differences of personality that affect opinions, taste, preferences, tendencies, or styles, should never be taken personally or viewed as a lack of respect or regard for a spouse. It’s fine to ask someone to try to help themselves in this regard, and to put in the effort to make small changes in the right direction and improve gradually, but demanding that someone completely alter their personality in a way that suits you better is both unreasonable and unrealistic. Unless they’re case, you’ll find that if either the husband or the wife starts only late when it involves you, chances are that they aren’t digging, the other spouse will end up digging from his side late because they don’t respect or appreciate you, but rather too. It’s both unproductive as well as hurtful to say things like, Therefore, even though you’ve let your husband know “If you really loved me, you would… ” When it’s a personality that you’re writing to me, I wouldn’t advise you to pre

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Torah Lessons for the Home

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15 августа 2024 г.

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Темы: family_education, relationships_shalom_bayit, health_mind, parsha_commentary