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Torah Lessons for the Home — tl behar-bechukosai 5786

Выпуск: Torah Lessons for the Home — tl behar-bechukosai 5786. Темы: family_education, relationships_shalom_bayit, health_mind, parsha_commentary. Поисковые термины: воспитание, дети, семья, chinuch, family, חינוך, ילדים, משפחה, шалом байт, брак, отношения, shalom bayit, marriage, שלום בית, זוגיות, здоровье, психология, стресс, health, mental. ‫ב"ד‬ RABBI SHIMON GRUEN Torah Lessons for the Home SAD BAD PATTERNS This week’s parshah includes the tochachah, which depicts terrible predictions of what will befall Am Yisrael if they persist in following the wrong path: “You will become lost among the nations and the land of your enemies will consume you ... those of you who survive will rot away in the lands of your enemies...” In the middle of this list of curses, appears the passuk, “They will confess their sins and the sin of their fathers...” The Imrei Yehudah of Brezhan comments on the apparently odd inclusion of this passuk among the tochachah — surely confessing one’s sins is a good thing and should bring blessings rather than curses? Generally, you don’t have to worry as much about the timing when giving a genuine Parshas compliment as you do when you want to give some “constructive criticism.” But even the best words can have a negative impact if Behar-Bechukosai spoken at the wrong time. I know it’s for the greater good, and that’s what keeps me going, but it’s lonely and exhausting work, and as you mentioned in the class I referred to, “It’s important to realize that some people need to get a lot before they can start giving back.” I’ll admit that this morning, after a painful episode yesterday, my husband sent me a text saying, “I’m very sorry for saying that yesterday, I just responded without thinking, I’m sorry” — which is huge huge huge and I told him that I appreciate it — but this is the first ”returns” that I’m seeing in our eight years of marriage. Some people enter marriage with baggage that makes them so distrustful of others that it can take years for them to accept that what they receive from their spouse comes without ulterior motives and that nothing is behind it aside from the desire to build a strong shalom bayis. The Rebbe gave his brachah, Some spouses insist, “I’ve invested enough — now it’s his adding, “And come to see me when you get back.” turn,” or “I’ll start giving when she does.” This attitude fails When he returned, the chass

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Torah Lessons for the Home

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8 мая 2026 г.

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Темы: family_education, relationships_shalom_bayit, health_mind, parsha_commentary