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Torah Lessons for the Home — tl vaeschanan 5786 — Va'etchanan 5786

Выпуск: Torah Lessons for the Home — tl vaeschanan 5786 — Va'etchanan 5786. Темы: family_education, relationships_shalom_bayit, health_mind, parsha_commentary. Поисковые термины: воспитание, дети, семья, chinuch, family, חינוך, ילדים, משפחה, шалом байт, брак, отношения, shalom bayit, marriage, שלום בית, זוגיות, здоровье, психология, стресс, health, mental. ‫ב"ד‬ RABBI SHIMON GRUEN Torah Lessons for the Home LESSONS ON LISTENING After the Aseres Hadibros are repeated, Hashem tells Moshe, “Go tell them (lahem): Return to your tents; but as for you (ve’atah), stand here with me and I will speak to you of all the commandments...” In a play on these words, the Imrei Chaim conveys an important lesson on communication. All jobs have difficulties and who knows if after working painlessly for months or years to make the salary he is making now, he will then be pressured by clients, money, and all that comes with it, especially as he has a tendency to fall into some kind of depression every time he has difficulties. There aremany reasons why people continue familiar: a husband comes home after a long, exhausting day, to vent even when they have a listening ear, and why they only to be met with his wife's understandable frustrations hold back from taking positive steps to rectify the situation. Telling one’s spouse that they should go to a are two ways in which to understand the passuk, “Da’agah therapist instead could, understandably, give rise to a great b’lev ish yasichena.” The first, is that one should simply try deal of resentment, not just for feeling that their spouse to put the troubling situation out of one’s mind. intentions, as you clearly did, only to start to feel burned You’ll know that you may have overstepped the line if you out after a while, wondering whether their patient listening start feeling responsible for your husband’s feelings or is even achieving anything. While maintaining some emotional your husband’s “chronic complaining.” distance may be appropriate in relationships where our There are still ways to make a responsible decision, but level of commitment is more limited, emotionally distancing that doesn’t necessarily mean there is only one right answer. I really hope they’ll be able to help.” in our hearts, as R’ Mordechai of Lechovitch said: “With Hashem, we can cross the ocean; without Him, we can’t And the last step might make the most

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Torah Lessons for the Home

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24 июля 2026 г.

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Темы: family_education, relationships_shalom_bayit, health_mind, parsha_commentary