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Torah Lessons for the Home — TL Vayeira 5784

Выпуск: Torah Lessons for the Home — TL Vayeira 5784. Темы: family_education, health_mind, parsha_commentary. Поисковые термины: воспитание, дети, семья, chinuch, family, חינוך, ילדים, משפחה, здоровье, психология, стресс, health, mental, בריאות, נפש, недельная глава, парша, parsha, פרשה, פרשת השבוע. There’s a joke about a little boy whose mother adored him to no end ‫אלכסנדר זיסקינד ע״ה‬ and would always refer to him in loving terms: “Go to sleep, tzaddik’l.” “Good morning, in honor of his Yurtzeit shefeleh!” “Have a wonderful day, malach’l!” After his first day in cheder, the mother ‫ט״ז חשון‬ asked her little tzaddik’l, “Nu, shefeleh, what did you learn today?” to which he replied: .‫ה‬.‫ב‬.‫צ‬.‫נ‬.‫ת‬ “I learned that my name is Dovid.” As long as the child is “tzaddik’l” in our eyes, everything’s fine and we can find the necessary time and patience. During the years when he wandered from place to place together with the Rebbe R’ Elimelech of Lizhensk, both disguised as regular people, they were not usually treated so well—but in later years, when R’ Zusha was known and respected as a great tzaddik, he was accorded great honor. Of course they were seated separately, but it’s just not QU ESTION something that’s appropriate for a chassidisher yungerman, and not something he was brought up with What I would like to ask is, whether I should just swallow and put up with this, or whether I should try to say something to him nicely, to try to get him to understand what’s required of a chassidisher yungerman once he’s married. What no one would dispute, however, is that a parent’s well-placed and well-phrased word to a child of any age, whether four or forty, can have a positive effect on that child (and even the neighbor, for that matter), whereas a word that isn’t well-placed or well-phrased won’t have a good effect—even on a four-year-old. Sometimes, older As already mentioned, if it’s a matter of halachah and or married children think that it’s their job to educate their you asked your rav and he told you that you’re obligated to parents on how to treat them, now that they’re grown speak up, that’s something else entirely. for advice on whether to try to be mechanech their child a certain way: “Should I wake up my son for Kriyas Shema?” What’s more, virtually everyone has mechutanim : who are more meikel with some things—and with other HOME I often reply, “Try it

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Torah Lessons for the Home

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3 ноября 2023 г.

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Темы: family_education, health_mind, parsha_commentary