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Torah Lessons for the Home — TL Parshas Va’eschanan 5783 — Va'etchanan 5783

Выпуск: Torah Lessons for the Home — TL Parshas Va’eschanan 5783 — Va'etchanan 5783. Темы: relationships_shalom_bayit, health_mind, parsha_commentary. Поисковые термины: шалом байт, брак, отношения, shalom bayit, marriage, שלום בית, זוגיות, здоровье, психология, стресс, health, mental, בריאות, נפש, недельная глава, парша, parsha, פרשה, פרשת השבוע. If you want to become a grateful person, just keep saying, “Thank you.” If you want to become a person Rabbi Shimon Gruen TORAH If you enjoy and benefit from Rabbi Gruen's work please consider sponsoring a weekly Parsha LESSONS essay which is read and enjoyed by thousands of readers, and have a Zchus in the many hours of classes which help so many homes. T H I S W E E K ' S E S S AY I S S P O N S O R E D ˘ " ‫ל ז כ ו˙ ר ' ח י ים ˆב י ב ן ‡ ל ט ‡ פ ר ומט לרפ ו‬ P L E AS E TA K E A M O M E N T A N D S AY T E H I L I M F O R H I S R E F UA H S H L E I M A QUESTION #1 DEAR RABBI GRUEN, I can use some guidance regarding a situation, although it wasn’t so terrible. It’s the two simple words “I’m sorry.” Whenever she does something that hurts my feelings (and I’m not one to be easily offended or hypersensitive) and I tell her that I was hurt, she will never ever say the words “I’m sorry.” She’ll discuss it, talk about it, and even debate whether it was right or wrong. T O R A H L E S S O N S F O R T H E H O M E // VA’ESCHA NA N 5783 // 2 Since both questioners are discussing situations where like what you’re asking for is something you expect the other one party is bothered by something that isn’t being expressed person to give, even if you don’t state it outright. clearly or sufficiently, I’ll try to give an answer that will provide Saying things like, “It would mean a lot to me if you a general structure for how to assess what’s reasonable to ask could express appreciation for this,” or, “It would mean so for and how to maximize the chances of having your requests much if you could say you’re sorry,” go a long way to easing met. There generalize or condemn using statements such as, “You never are people who demand appreciation when they’ve hardly thank me,” “You don’t care about my feelings,” or “You’re so done anything, or who demand more appreciation even stubborn; why can’t you just say it?” Such talk won’t get you after you have already expressed it. If An often misunderstood point that’s relevant to your spouse says

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Torah Lessons for the Home

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28 июля 2023 г.

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Темы: relationships_shalom_bayit, health_mind, parsha_commentary