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Torah Lessons for the Home — Chukas 5784

Выпуск: Torah Lessons for the Home — Chukas 5784. Темы: family_education, health_mind, parsha_commentary. Поисковые термины: воспитание, дети, семья, chinuch, family, חינוך, ילדים, משפחה, здоровье, психология, стресс, health, mental, בריאות, נפש, недельная глава, парша, parsha, פרשה, פרשת השבוע. While sibling rivalry and jealousy, and even not having “enough” privacy, are all genuine challenges that come along with a large family, the skills children acquire when dealing with these issues will serve them extremely well later in life. ‫ב"ד‬ RABBI SHIMON GRUEN Torah Lessons for the Home OBVIOUS PROBLEMS, HIDDEN SOLUTIONS In this week’s parshah the Torah describes the copper snake that Moshe Rabbeinu erected on a pole, and how those who had sinned and had been bitten by a snake had only to look at this copper snake and be healed. Sometimes a child who is getting “help” for a known challenge actually ends up being helped more by the additional attention now being given to him, and the concern everyone is now showing for Parshas his welfare, which then leads to a vast improvement in all other areas of his life as well. Virtually all families have at least one “challenging child.” Virtually all parents feel at least sometimes that, “Life would be so much simpler if I didn’t have to deal with this one child’s issues.” While it’s natural to see the situation in that light, there is a better way of looking at things, one which holds the key to finding a solution. who go to the beis medrash: Those who go to learn and actually ••• learn; those who go to learn but don’t learn when they get there; those who don’t go to the beis medrash but still learn, That said, it’s extremely important that extra time, attention, elsewhere; and those who don’t go anywhere and don’t learn patience, and love is given in a way that builds up your son, anything. He replies that as children, we all go to the beis have to find ways to highlight such children’s successes, and medrash — all children go to cheider, to yeshivah — but the also reassure them that doing less well in other areas doesn’t question is: What happens next? If you want your child to be among those who “go to learn Parents often find it hard to think up ways of achieving this and actually learn,” you have to give them the cheshek to learn — especially at tense moments when they’re feeling more like and the ability to devote

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Torah Lessons for the Home

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12 июля 2024 г.

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Темы: family_education, health_mind, parsha_commentary