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Zichron Avinoam — Beshalach 5783

Выпуск: Zichron Avinoam — Beshalach 5783. Темы: relationships_shalom_bayit. Поисковые термины: шалом байт, брак, отношения, shalom bayit, marriage, שלום בית, זוגיות. Avi and Ilana Keil- test of just how close they really were to HaKadosh Baruch son, upon the aufruf this Shabbos of their son Yossi — and his up- Hu; and how much they were implicitly willing to put on the coming marriage b’ezras Hashem to Golda Glinn of Edison, New line with that faith. May Hashem bless them all with endless Yiddishe na- a moment of some measure of distance from Hashem —as they chas from this young couple, and from all of their wonderful chil- were contemplating just how close to Him they really are and dren and grandchildren. In light of this particular simchah, I share a beautiful When they took the step and followed the lead of Nachs- thought from Yossi’s maternal uncle, R’ Yosef Wartelsky (that, hon ben Aminadav is when their great faith shone forth — parenthetically, Yosef told me on Shabbos Parashas Beshalach and merited the miracle for the ages. of questioning a relationship that sometimes happen—seen in On this beautiful Shabbos of the Shirah, we hear about the these two very great examples of one’s zivug and one’s par- very great miracle of Kerias Yam Suf, and we learn the words of nassah — is what is difficult, kaviyachol, for Hashem. For just Chazal on that miracle of miracles, “Kushe Zivugo … ke’Krias as at the Splitting of the Sea, in these two instances one must Yam Suf.” That is, Chazal states that finding one’s shidduch is as realize that everything is in the Hands of Hashem Yisborach “kushe, difficult” as the “difficulty of Splitting of the Sea.” alone, and one need not worry about anything — not even for In a similar vein, the Gemara (Pesachim 118) says the same a moment. It is in regard to Shemini Atzeres, where Chazal Dessler: The reason we must not do any work before tefillah is teach us in the name of HaKadosh Baruch Hu, “Kushe alai pre- in order to show very clearly that we know good and well that idaschem, Separation from you is difficult for Me.” Hashem Yis- our parnassah is not related to any hishtadlus we will make borach, kaviyachol, expresses to the Jewish people as we part during the day; rather, it is only a gift from Hashem alone. ways at the end of the Yamim Tovim; ‘Separating from you is so Our prayers each day, therefore, reveal our true persp

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Zichron Avinoam

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3 февраля 2023 г.

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Темы: relationships_shalom_bayit