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Torah Lessons for the Home — TL Pekudei 5784

Выпуск: Torah Lessons for the Home — TL Pekudei 5784. Темы: family_education, chassidus_hashkafa, relationships_shalom_bayit, health_mind, parsha_commentary. Поисковые термины: воспитание, дети, семья, chinuch, family, חינוך, ילדים, משפחה, хасидут, хасидский взгляд, chassidus, hashkafa, חסידות, השקפה, шалом байт, брак, отношения, shalom bayit, marriage, שלום בית. I would also like to clarify another point that the husband By contrast, using phrases such as, “It’s not an option,” makes, when he writes that his wife seemed to think that cooking tends to drive the other person away — even if the husband is PEKUDEI for a family sitting shivah was more important than making time completely right and his wife is acting wrongly. She’s cooking for the The husband also mentions that he and his wife have quite family for herself — because it gives her a feeling of fulfillment, different natures — he is more of a calm person, whereas she is because she feels good and happy contributing in this way. In his sefer Likutei Torah, the Rebbe R’ Mottel Chernobyler ztz”l explains these words to mean, “Eileh—the Jewish People, pekudei (from the lashon “v’lo nifkad”)—those who are lacking something,” and notes that it is those Jews who are constantly aware that their service of Hashem is lacking and insufficient who will be motivated to improve and become part of the Mishkan. The last time this happened, I made preparations and let her know with a hint, as I usually do, but then, around midnight, she told me, “Later.” I said it’s not an option, that I can’t stay up so QU ESTION late and if I go to sleep, then even if I get up again later it won’t work. Unfortunately, there are wives who distort even the good things their husbands do (and vice versa), complaining that (for instance), “Now that you’re getting up early, you’re too tired to help me later in the day,” or even, “You’re getting up early because you care about yourself — but what are you doing for me?” ••• In any relationship between two people, there are areas that belong to just one of them and not the other, and areas that they share. ••• In general, the best way to approach any area of dispute is by A recent case I dealt with involved a couple where for years focusing on one’s own feelings rather than what the other person the wife had been behaving in a clearly non-Torah’dig way (for is “doing wrong.”. I do have to

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Torah Lessons for the Home
Дата
15 марта 2024 г.
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4

Темы: family_education, chassidus_hashkafa, relationships_shalom_bayit, health_mind, parsha_commentary