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Torah Lessons for the Home — Bechukotai 5784

Выпуск: Torah Lessons for the Home — Bechukotai 5784. Темы: family_education, relationships_shalom_bayit, health_mind, parsha_commentary. Поисковые термины: воспитание, дети, семья, chinuch, family, חינוך, ילדים, משפחה, шалом байт, брак, отношения, shalom bayit, marriage, שלום בית, זוגיות, здоровье, психология, стресс, health, mental. It’s important to involve daas Torah when addressing the general situation and also specific questions — a rav ••• who knows the family and can guide them according to Rav Kantor ztz”l once related how a certain person their individual needs. ‫ב"ד‬ RABBI SHIMON GRUEN Torah Lessons for the Home HELP THAT HELPS Parshas Bechukosai describes how Hashem gave us the Torah on Har Sinai, “between Him and Bnei Yisrael.” The Ropshitzer Rov zy”a explains these words as hinting at the rachmanus Hashem has on His people, the Yidden, using the mashal of a father who has to chastise his son for a wrongdoing. R’ Yiddele Horowitz, the Dzikover Rebbe of Yerushalayim ztz”l, would say: “People are so concerned with the ‘when, how, and what’ that they forget to ask about the ‘who’.” It’s wonderful if the chassan has learned a thousand blatt Gemara, and even more wonderful if his father has the means to support him, but often these things overshadow the inquiries about his character and basic menschlichkeit! (In fact, Hagaon Harav David Shustal told me in the name of his father-in-law, Hagaon Harav Shneur Kotler ztz”l, that the very first thing to look for in a this is a delicate topic where personal guidance is needed shidduch is someone with an “easy nature.”) before taking action.) ••• ••• Once a couple is married, however, acceptance Sometimes, however, a person really does want advice, is fundamental and crucial. than good by giving bad advice intended to “enable the Even when they don’t spell out their feelings, the wife to stand up for herself” or “get her to realize that she BECHUKOSAI son or daughter (the husband or wife) may sense their shouldn’t let herself be treated like this...” While there are disappointment, which will make it more challenging for situations where people need to be protected from abuse, them to see the positive in their spouse. Telling a sister wants to build her home — to use creativity and wisdom to or brother, “Wow, I could never do what you do,” can sound : improve the situation, to work with what she has, and wit

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Torah Lessons for the Home

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30 мая 2024 г.

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4

Темы: family_education, relationships_shalom_bayit, health_mind, parsha_commentary