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Torah Lessons for the Home — Yisro 5783

Выпуск: Torah Lessons for the Home — Yisro 5783. Темы: relationships_shalom_bayit, health_mind, parsha_commentary. Поисковые термины: шалом байт, брак, отношения, shalom bayit, marriage, שלום בית, זוגיות, здоровье, психология, стресс, health, mental, בריאות, נפש, недельная глава, парша, parsha, פרשה, פרשת השבוע. and also on your confidence that this one issue will be sorted out peacefully very soon, Rabbi Shimon Gruen TORAH If you enjoy and benefit from Rabbi Gruen's work please consider sponsoring a weekly Parsha LESSONS essay which is read and enjoyed by thousands of readers, and have a Zchus in the many hours of classes which help so many homes. If those motions are the first two of the Aseres Hadibros: “Anochi” and inappropriate, however, he shouldn’t be doing “V’lo yihyeh lecha.” Chazal tell us that the first two them, even if he is convinced that his davening is Dibros were said together, “bedibur echad ne’emru.” better with them. ••• T H I S W E E K ' S E S S AY I S S P O N S O R E D B Y A G R O U P O F A P P R E C I AT I V E M E L A M D I M A N D T E AC H E R S W H O PA R T I C I PAT E D I N T H E R E C E N T C H I N U C H C O U R S E T H A N K S T O T H E G E N E R O S I T Y O F THE SCHLESI N G ER FA M I LY O F B. ANSWER RABBI SHIMON GRUEN RESPONDS Before addressing your specific question, I’d like to generously than her husband would like, even though provide some general guidance, applicable to both men the wife might think that “since it’s a mitzvah, it’s fine.” and women. If a husband is told to exercise before getting married, the husband has to give maaser the “right” to spend his wife’s money, disregarding the from that money — even if she already gave maaser from fact that his wife is hurt and resentful, he’s received it — as for the husband, this is fresh income. (Again, bad advice, and the same applies if a wife is told that for anything of practical relevance please consult a she has the “right” to lock away her money because her competent halachic authority.) husband isn’t responsible enough, disregarding the fact that he’s being hurt in the process. True, according to the kesubah, a husband is As you note, according to the Torah, all the money obligated to support his wife, but there are clear limits a wife earns belongs to her husband, which is why to that obligation, and a wife should not expect her it’s problematic if a wife donates t

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Torah Lessons for the Home

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9 февраля 2023 г.

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Темы: relationships_shalom_bayit, health_mind, parsha_commentary