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Torah Lessons for the Home — TL Vayakhel 5784 — Vayak'hel 5784

Выпуск: Torah Lessons for the Home — TL Vayakhel 5784 — Vayak'hel 5784. Темы: family_education, relationships_shalom_bayit, parsha_commentary. Поисковые термины: воспитание, дети, семья, chinuch, family, חינוך, ילדים, משפחה, шалом байт, брак, отношения, shalom bayit, marriage, שלום בית, זוגיות, недельная глава, парша, parsha, פרשה, פרשת השבוע. Moshe Rabbeinu told Bnei Yisrael: Yes, you sinned, but you only made that mistake because the first of the Aseres Hadibros — the Ten Commandments — was given in the singular form: “I am Hashem your G-d, you [singular] shall not have other gods…” Although Hashem was referring to the entire nation, you understood it as referring only to me. Throughout the Torah we find Moshe Rabbeinu trying to put the Yidden in the Would you like to sponsor an best possible light and interpret their actions in the best possible way — to the edition of Torah Lessons, to extent that he asked Hashem to “delete me from Your book” if Klal Yisrael could help enhance the Chinuch not be saved. They were talking as if it’s normal for husbands to feel a lot of pressure from their wives, as if they’re always on stage and have to perform, to give the impression of doing the right thing, even if this leads to them not being honest about what they do or think or believe, because they know their wives won’t be happy if they find out the truth. Thank you Before I turn to the question itself, I’d like to comment on the use of the word “normal.” So many problems in life and especially in relationships are caused by this idea of “normal.” The truth is that everyone is different and every marriage is different; what’s normal for one couple is very abnormal for another. TOR AH much if her husband acts wrongly, and chances are she It’s usually after giving up hope for improvement won’t simply accept or worse, condone his behavior if that a husband or wife chooses a confrontational there is no desire on his part to improve his ways. And everyone says that it’s normal to cripple him from overcoming the actual problem, even learn for no more than an hour,” is very likely to result if his wife were to take it “well.” in an argument, with the wife strongly disagreeing and A person who finds himself slipping should harness telling him what she thinks “normal” is. the shame he feels to improve, so that in the future he But if he comes home and says, “I really admire no

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Torah Lessons for the Home

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8 марта 2024 г.

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Темы: family_education, relationships_shalom_bayit, parsha_commentary