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Parsha with Rabbi Shmuel Brazil — tazriah - metzoirah 5786 — Tazria-Metzora 5786

Выпуск: Parsha with Rabbi Shmuel Brazil — tazriah - metzoirah 5786 — Tazria-Metzora 5786. Темы: family_education, parsha_commentary. Поисковые термины: воспитание, дети, семья, chinuch, family, חינוך, ילדים, משפחה, недельная глава, парша, parsha, פרשה, פרשת השבוע. When one is confronted with a family member's lack and ‫ חסרון‬and feels it has come time to reprimand this individual, he should first reckon with his "accountant" and check if he has already fallen into the category of being a ‫ קפדן‬and used up all his credits for that day or week. In the sefer Toldos Yitzchak the uncle of the Bais Yosef, it says that in the creation of Chavah the passuk writes ‫ויפל ה' אלקים תרדמה על האדם ויישן ויקח אחת מצלעותיו ויסדר בשר תחתנה‬ Hashem caused a deep sleep to fall upon man and he slept. An allusion to this disciplined behavior of not being too critical can be gleaned from the passuk ‫ורוח‬ ‫( תשימו בין עדר לעדר‬Bereishis 32,16) place a space between the flocks when you give my gift to Aisav. He answers ‫רמז שהאדם יעשה עצמו נרדם בביתו ולא יהיה קפדן עם אשתו ובני ביתו‬ It was a hint to Man that he should not be a ‫ קפדן‬in his house, to his wife nor to his family. A ‫קפדן‬ refers to the individual who must be right always with no flexibility to say "let's imagine that I am in the dark and I can overlook a negah tzaraas an imperfection here and there". One has the bechirah to focus only on negative behavior with the response of chastisement or he can turn a blind eye and see the offender in a positive good light as if he didn't do any transgression. This Mishna is advising the "hearer" to remain in 1 the dark even though his curiosity of listening to the juicy story is seducing him to choose an immoral conduct which will chas veshalom harm you. To this concept the passuk alludes that one must remember to place a space between your barrage of corrections by graciously sprinkling some positive words in between once in a while. Rather the approach should be that some time he should choose to turn a blind eye as if saying to himself I was sleeping and didn't see that or hear that negative remark. Rav Zeirah comments that this yesod of Rabbe Elazar is derived from the above Mishnah dealing with a spot of leprosy in a dark house which protects him from losing out.

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Parsha with Rabbi Shmuel Brazil

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17 апреля 2026 г.

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3

Темы: family_education, parsha_commentary