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Divrei Shaagasi — [YomTov - Shavuos] 5 Books of Moshe - A Marriage Blueprint — Bamidbar 5783

Выпуск: Divrei Shaagasi — [YomTov - Shavuos] 5 Books of Moshe - A Marriage Blueprint — Bamidbar 5783. Темы: kashrut, family_education, holidays, relationships_shalom_bayit, health_mind. Поисковые термины: кашрут, кошер, kosher, kashrut, כשרות, כשר, воспитание, дети, семья, chinuch, family, חינוך, ילדים, משפחה, пурим, песах, ханука, суккот, yom tov, פורים. To accomplish this, one needs the trait of humility, represented by the small ` on the first word of `x¨ §w¦Ie©.28 These aspects directly correspond to the essential mitzvos of Taharas HaMishpacha of the Jewish family.29 At the beginning of Vayikra it states, m¤Mn¦ aix¦ §w©i i ¦M mc̈ ¨` - When a man sacrifices from you.”30 The Alter Rebbe explains “m¤Mn¦ ” is from within himself.31 Marriage too, must involve the surrender of the self in order to bond with the other. Rabbeinu Gershom is best known for his important 'Takonos' (laws) dealing with social and family life, which he enacted with the approval of the Rabbinical authorities and were accepted by all the Jews of Europe – “as if they were given on Mount Sinai." Among these Takonos, the most well-known are the prohibitions of polygamy (taking more than one wife), and the requirement of a wife to consent to divorce. The shadchan replied, "Because that is the only day she would ever marry you." Shir HaShirim states: oŸeI ¦v zŸep §A dp̈i ¤̀ xE§ | dp̈i ¤̀ §v Go out; And gaze, you daughters of Tzion dŸnŸl §W K¤lO¤ A© At the king, Shlomo ŸeO`¦ ŸeN dx¨H§ ¦rW¤ dx¨ḧ£rÄ upon the crown with which his mother crowned him ŸezP̈ ªz£g mŸei §A on the day of his wedding FA¦l zg© n§ ¦U mŸei §aE and on the day of the joy of his heart.1 On this verse, the Midrash Shir HaShirim Rabbah equates Shavuos (the time when the Torah was given) to a wedding, and based on a summary of each of the Five Books of the Torah2, we will see how each relates to the various stages of marriage.3 Stage 1: Selection, Courtship & Commitment How does one go about getting married? After the creation of the world and its inhabitants, HaShem eventually selects Avraham and his children to be the nation through which He would form an everlasting bond, and make this world a cr© i ¥ c£r o©i§p ¦A - an everlasting dwelling for Him below.4 During this stage, a suitor will often assess the dedication of their potential spouse by subjecting them to various tests. i ¦zix¦ §A z ¤̀ i ¦zŸn ¦w£ de© - And I will es

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Divrei Shaagasi

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19 мая 2023 г.

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6

Темы: kashrut, family_education, holidays, relationships_shalom_bayit, health_mind