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Torah Lessons for the Home — tl shoftim 5786

Выпуск: Torah Lessons for the Home — tl shoftim 5786. Темы: family_education, chassidus_hashkafa, health_mind, parsha_commentary. Поисковые термины: воспитание, дети, семья, chinuch, family, חינוך, ילדים, משפחה, хасидут, хасидский взгляд, chassidus, hashkafa, חסידות, השקפה, здоровье, психология, стресс, health, mental, בריאות. When a tragedy occurs, lo aleinu, it’s Zeidy Goldfarb ‫ע״ה‬ relatively easy to see Hashem’s hand and realize that He alone ‫ר׳ משה יעקב ב״ר יהושע ז״ל‬ orchestrated it; it’s when we face the smaller trials and tribulations of daily life that we often fall into the trap of blaming others in our ‫יאה״צ ר״ח אלול תנצב״ה‬ lives for our suffering. I have already learnt that she compares herself a lot to her mother who has always held down a few teaching jobs and also managed her house and she also compares herself to her older sister who is a principal in a school and she looks down at herself as she is a stay-at-home mom who sometimes brings in some money from babysitting. While you could be right, that when she claims to be giving you certain it’s helpful to keep an open mind and also realize things in order to demonstrate her love, she really that even though it seems to make sense for her to feels that those efforts express her feelings toward you. time and thought she invested, and set aside the But if you do feel the need to share your feelings fact that had she first asked you what you wanted, (which is often necessary and understandable), you probably would have requested something there’s no need to wait until you’re asked whether else entirely. you’re angry “at” them — you can take the initiative and reassure them that although you’re feeling This doesn’t mean that you can’t go ahead and blue, it’s not their fault and you don’t expect them request other things — the two approaches aren’t to deal with things on your behalf. mentioned as doing for you specifically, may help Instead, we all need to follow advice similar to your wife not only to feel happier, but also more an idea I often cite from the Beis Aharon ztz”l, who inclined to continue investing thought into ways to said that while many people bind themselves to show her love for you. That’s same team and that when you love, appreciate, much easier said than done, but even something and care for each other, you are so much better as simple as putting on a equipped to deal with a

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Torah Lessons for the Home

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14 августа 2026 г.

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Темы: family_education, chassidus_hashkafa, health_mind, parsha_commentary