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Torah Lessons for the Home — Shoftim 5784

Выпуск: Torah Lessons for the Home — Shoftim 5784. Темы: kashrut, family_education, chassidus_hashkafa, parsha_commentary. Поисковые термины: кашрут, кошер, kosher, kashrut, כשרות, כשר, воспитание, дети, семья, chinuch, family, חינוך, ילדים, משפחה, хасидут, хасидский взгляд, chassidus, hashkafa, חסידות, השקפה. Chinuch ‫יה״ר שתזכה לאריכות ימים‬ ‫ושנים טובים בבריות גופא‬ that leads to inspiration and long-term implementation is not achieved via force ‫ונהורא מעליא‬ but by example and by inspiring our children to genuinely appreciate Torah and mitzvos and to choose to live their lives accordingly. This week's essay is This concept can be applied to chinuch, where, all too often, we are very aware sponsored in honor of a of the first type of chinuch message, the one that tells children what to do and wonderful friend who from what to refrain — but when it comes to the second type of chinuch, the part offers immeasurable help that involves putting principles into action, we leave it to the child’s own free will. He’s a good boy who does what he’s told, davens and learns like an average bachur, and although I feel he has the ability to shteig more, I don’t pressure him and allow him to relax and listen to (of course only kosher) phone hotlines when he’s home, and so forth. In Parshas Bechukosai, the Divrei Yisrael (commenting on the passuk that compares the way that Hashem reprimands Klal Yisrael to the way in which a father reprimands a son) notes that if a father sees that his son is no longer obeying his instructions, it’s time to set aside the stick (chinuch by force) and speak to his son gently, which will accomplish far more. There is a place for the chinuch of red lines and consequences as our children grow up, when explanations and giving choices only detracts from what we are trying to achieve at a time when our children are too young to appreciate the liberty inherent in “choosing” a certain way. The for granted, as many children have very different reason for this is that an older child may not be able “tastes” and opinions from those of their parents, 5784 to endure the experience of corporal punishment, and a feeling for something cannot be imposed. When we look honestly at ourselves, really is not, and the fact that the Torah sees fit we will probably notice many ways in which we to warn us of this occurring is more than enough turned out differently f

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Torah Lessons for the Home

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5 сентября 2024 г.

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Темы: kashrut, family_education, chassidus_hashkafa, parsha_commentary