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Brooklyn Torah Gazette — Ki Sisa 5783

Выпуск: Brooklyn Torah Gazette — Ki Sisa 5783. Темы: family_education, relationships_shalom_bayit, parsha_commentary. Поисковые термины: воспитание, дети, семья, chinuch, family, חינוך, ילדים, משפחה, шалом байт, брак, отношения, shalom bayit, marriage, שלום בית, זוגיות, недельная глава, парша, parsha, פרשה, פרשת השבוע. Brooklyn Torah Gazette for Parshas Ki Sisa 5783 Brooklyn torah gazette For parshas ki sisa 5783 Volume 7, Issue 26 (Whole Number 333) 18 Adar 5783/ March 11, 2023 Printed L’illuy nishmas Nechama bas R’ Noach, a”h For a free subscription, please forward your request to keren18@juno.com How to Succeed with Shidduchim: Davening is Hishtadlus! 1|P ag e Brooklyn Torah Gazette for Parshas Ki Sisa 5783 It is a Yiddish word which means ‘pre-destined.” Bashert really means, Rabbi Smith emphasized “hashgacha pratis.” A question one might ask is why should one push a particular shidduch if seeming obstacles pop up. We see, Rabbi Smith said, that when Eliezer the servant of Avrahom first proposed the shidduch (suggestion of marriage) between his master’s son Yitzchak and Rivka, both the girl’s father and brother initially declared – “this is from Hashem.” One Will Be Questioned in the Heavenly Court Chazal teach us that a person must do his or her hishtadlus (logical efforts) to achieve the goals of life, including pursuing shidduchim and getting married. A person with regards to shidduchim and other important aspects in life must have faith in bashert/hashgacha pratis and yet still focus on pursuing logical hishtadlus (i.e., by calling shadchanim/matchmakers or asking friends and neighbors for their suggestions.) Perhaps the most important hishtadlus for one to carry out with regards to succeeding in the matter of shidduchim, according to Rabbi Smith is to actually daven (pray) to Hashem. The Achievement of Our Matriarch Leah We also see that our matriarch Leah was able to change her destiny [to marry Esav] by constantly davening to Hashem and to such an extent that her eyes became weak from her constant tears when praying to be allowed to marry a tzaddik (righteous man.) Davening, Rabbi Smith repeated is not just good idea, but it is the essential hishtadlus that one is obligated to carry out faithfully. The crisis besetting our community today is that too many people, including the parents are lost in pursuing foolish inyonim (unimportant side issues.)

Издание

Brooklyn Torah Gazette

Дата

6 марта 2023 г.

Страниц

14

Темы: family_education, relationships_shalom_bayit, parsha_commentary