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Torah Lessons for the Home — tl bamidbar 5786

Выпуск: Torah Lessons for the Home — tl bamidbar 5786. Темы: family_education, relationships_shalom_bayit, health_mind, parsha_commentary. Поисковые термины: воспитание, дети, семья, chinuch, family, חינוך, ילדים, משפחה, шалом байт, брак, отношения, shalom bayit, marriage, שלום בית, זוגיות, здоровье, психология, стресс, health, mental. our good hours, identifying with them and brushing over the times Please email to when we slipped — and when we look at other people, the process parshalessons@lehair.org, and your donation will be most is reversed as we judge people according to their less-than-good appreciated. I quickly learned that this was not beneficial to our marriage and started looking for positive ways to encourage him to go such as asking him to have coffee with me early in the morning (once he was up he went to Shacharis) or giving him a lot of encouragement and positive feedback when he did go (acknowledging that I know it’s so hard for him and that I admire him for going, and making sure he knows that I don’t think he is a failure when he doesn't go). On the rare occasion that he does go he doesn’t get the same enthusiastic positive feedback that he used to and sometimes I feel resentment because that usually happens on a Friday or Shabbos and I think to myself that if he isn’t going to Shacharis anyway then if he's up early he should watch the kids so that I can sleep. When we made this arrangement it was with the unspoken acceptance that “You don’t go to Shacharis anyway, so...” I do however carry guilt for 1) becoming numb to the value of him going and whether he goes, 2) not encouraging him to go, 3) leading a lifestyle that doesn’t allow him to go, 4) reaching the point where I resent him sometimes for going. At the other extreme are ••• those who encourage a husband or wife (usually the wife) to be an “ishah kesheirah” who “builds up” her husband and Among your husband’s positive qualities you list “Jewish points him in the right direction, supporting and assisting and guilt.” That’s something people talk about a lot, with some pushing. It can be hard to distinguish HOME between the two unless we look at the outcome — so that’s So, you pester him, and berate him, and nag him, and how we know whether our “Jewish guilt” is something to sometimes you do it “nicely” by waking him up with a smile welcome or drive away. What Chazal mean is that it

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Torah Lessons for the Home

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15 мая 2026 г.

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4

Темы: family_education, relationships_shalom_bayit, health_mind, parsha_commentary