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Divrei Shaagasi — Mishpotim 5783

Выпуск: Divrei Shaagasi — Mishpotim 5783. Темы: family_education, relationships_shalom_bayit, health_mind. Поисковые термины: воспитание, дети, семья, chinuch, family, חינוך, ילדים, משפחה, шалом байт, брак, отношения, shalom bayit, marriage, שלום בית, זוגיות, здоровье, психология, стресс, health, mental. ● The child’s feelings of hatred toward the alienated parent can expand to include other family members related to that parent.[4] Where there existed mutual love and respect at one point, it suddenly devolves into distance, bitterness, and even hatred to the point where a child might even curse their very own parent, G-d forbid, or worse. He then explains this pasuk with a popular folk expression, “‫ ָאב אֶ חָד מְ פַרְ נַס עֲ שָׂרָ ה בָּ נָיו בְַּאהֲ בָה וּבְרָ צוֹן‬- One father can provide for his ten sons with love and with desire - ‫ וַ עֲ שָׂרָ ה בָּ נִים ֹלא מְ פַרְ נְסִים בְַּאהֲ בָה וּבְרָ צוֹן ָאב אֶ חָד שֶׁ לָ הֶם‬- but ten sons cannot support with love and desire for their one father.”[6] As any parent can relate, Yaakov had tremendous difficulty accepting support from his own child. They also found that 47% of moderately to severely alienated parents have contemplated suicide within the past year.[9] This is a serious enough issue that should not be relegated to “waiting it out.” Let us hope that the time will come soon when the words of the Navi will be realized when, “‫וְ הֵ שִׁיב לֵב־ָאבֹות עַל־בָּ נִים וְ לֵב בָּ נִים‬ ‫ עַל־אֲבֹותָ ם‬- He shall reconcile parents with children and children with their parents.” And let this be before Mashiach comes, as the verses conclude, ‫ הִ נֵּה ָאנֹכִי שֹׁלֵ חַ לָ כֶם אֵת אֵ לִ יּ ָה הַ נָּבִיא‬- Behold, I will send the prophet Eliyahu to you - ‫לִ פְ נֵי בֹּוא יֹום‬ ‫ ה’ הַ גָּדֹול וְ הַנֹּורָ א‬- before the coming of the great and awesome day of HaShem.[10] This will truly be an awesome day! On February 10th, 2021, the police of Coolidge, Arizona (a city 55 miles from Phoenix) were called to a scene by a passerby and found 19-year-old Brandon Soules by a water tower, roughed up and bound with his hands behind his back with a belt and a bandana stuffed in his mouth. When Yaakov is forced to come to Mitzrayim and be on the receiving end of his son’s support and generosity, the pasuk says, “And Israel (Yaakov) said to Joseph, "I will die this time since I have seen your face…”[5] Why would Yaakov express feelings of dying when

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Divrei Shaagasi

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16 февраля 2023 г.

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3

Темы: family_education, relationships_shalom_bayit, health_mind