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Torah Lessons for the Home — Eikev 5784

Выпуск: Torah Lessons for the Home — Eikev 5784. Темы: family_education, relationships_shalom_bayit, health_mind, parsha_commentary. Поисковые термины: воспитание, дети, семья, chinuch, family, חינוך, ילדים, משפחה, шалом байт, брак, отношения, shalom bayit, marriage, שלום בית, זוגיות, здоровье, психология, стресс, health, mental. ‫ב"ד‬ RABBI SHIMON GRUEN Torah Lessons for the Home CHINUCH WITH CONSIDERATION This week’s parshah features the well-known pesukim of Kriyas Shema, in which we are commanded to “place these words upon your heart.” The Kotzker Rebbe queries the Torah’s choice of words and asks: Why are we told to place these important words “upon” our hearts? While a wife may hold a different opinion (which deserves true consideration and respect), as long as her husband’s way of seeing things is within the bounds of “normal,” fighting him to have her “better” way of things accepted will usually have worse results than accepting his “worse” methods of chinuch. However, in many situations, it’s still usually best to go with second-best and reassure oneself that as long as the child sees that his parents are both on the same page, all will turn out well, seeking out an objective opinion, even if you see things that with Hashem’s help. In the event that he refuses to join you, and won’t accept One of the well-known explanations brought for that your way of doing things may be better, stop trying to why Hashem gives children two parents is this creates a convince him to work with you and do what you can on your balance between the opposing natures of man and woman. Most often this will play itself out you have been told by daas Torah that something softer is 5784 as a father with the smol docheh and the mother with the needed, you may have to be the one to try and tip things in yamin mekareves — with one parent providing the strict the other direction. None of this should ever right or obligation to cause a bigger rift in your marriage, be applied in a manner that makes it seem that one parent but be aware of your child’s needs and do your best to fill is contradicting the other; balance is about complementing the void. If your rav tells you that that whatever we’re doing should be in order to benefit our your husband is being too strict toward your son, and that children and enable them to grow into ehrliche Yidden will you may contradict him and give him

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Torah Lessons for the Home

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22 августа 2024 г.

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Темы: family_education, relationships_shalom_bayit, health_mind, parsha_commentary