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Torah Lessons for the Home — TL Tzav 5784 — Tsav 5784

Выпуск: Torah Lessons for the Home — TL Tzav 5784 — Tsav 5784. Темы: family_education, health_mind, parsha_commentary. Поисковые термины: воспитание, дети, семья, chinuch, family, חינוך, ילדים, משפחה, здоровье, психология, стресс, health, mental, בריאות, נפש, недельная глава, парша, parsha, פרשה, פרשת השבוע. A child must be disciplined, but at the Who survived the Holocaust and rebuilt a family of ‫בנים‬ same time he needs to know that he is loved; it’s not one or the ‫ובני בנים עוסקים בתורה ומצוות‬ other, alternating between the two important messages, rather ‫תהא נפשו צרורה בצרור החיים‬ both together, at all times. Aharon, and also Moshe Rabbeinu, served Hashem This week's essay is perfectly, using both middos in the correct proportions, as Rashi dedicated in loving memory of a proud Abba and Zeidy says, “not deviating to the right or left.” ‫ר׳ שלמה יהודה ב״ר אליעזר‬ Another idea suggested by the metaphor of hands is that ‫טסלר ע״ה‬ we can use both our hands at once. ‫ב"ד‬ RABBI SHIMON GRUEN Torah Lessons for the Home DON’T STRAY TO THE LEFT OR THE RIGHT At the end of this week’s parshah, we find Moshe Rabbeinu instructing Aharon Hakohen and his sons in many of the details of the korbanos, and the parshah concludes with the words, “And Aharon and his sons did all the things that Hashem commanded, beyad Moshe—through Moshe.” Rashi explains that the passuk is praising Aharon and his sons for “not deviating either to the right or to the left” of what they were told to do. A sensitive child — like any child, in fact — is also likely to use manipulative statements such as, “If you really loved me, you would give me X.” While their intention in using such words is to get their way, they are also being sincere, to a degree, due to their insecurities and doubts. understandable, but still mistaken, for a parent Of course, if he had misbehaved he had to learn in such a situation to respond, “After I already to improve — and yet, knowing my son, telling gave you so much, how can you claim that I don’t him this directly seemed unlikely to achieve that love you simply because I can’t give you this one outcome. I’ll be there to tell him what a great boy you are, how hard you’re ••• trying, and how much progress you’ve already It’s also important to invest in the rebbi’s made.” feelings, because everyone, adult and child, feels To summarize: While a parent should not gi

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Torah Lessons for the Home

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29 марта 2024 г.

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Темы: family_education, health_mind, parsha_commentary