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Divrei Hisoirerus — hisorirus — Devorim 5783

Выпуск: Divrei Hisoirerus — hisorirus — Devorim 5783. Темы: family_education, parsha_commentary. Поисковые термины: воспитание, дети, семья, chinuch, family, חינוך, ילדים, משפחה, недельная глава, парша, parsha, פרשה, פרשת השבוע. friend about the wonderful chinuch he had tirelessly However, he was never taught the correct methods of given to his children, the Nobel standards he held for chinuch, thus he naturally turned to the methods by them, but how now, one after another, were distancing which he was raised. Now, when He explained that, although a tougher approach may they feel your love and see the kindness and tolerance, seem effective in the short term, in reality, real chinuch they have slowly learned to trust you and all the pain of is a little softer, and, better yet, actually makes the child those years is coming out. with you.” He then began telling his father what a difficult childhood he had, how he felt that his father The answer is that in fact, it is only during times of was such a controlling tyrant, how much pain and closeness, when we feel Hashem’s love and embrace, difficulty this brought to him… After two hours painfully that we can express the pain, we can discuss the listening to this R’ Dov could take it no more. We must feel the pain and hester of the churban and galus but at the same time we must R’ Yeshaya welcomed him in, and R’ Dov, after drying realize that Tisha B’av is called a mo’ed (thus we refrain his eyes, told him how he had followed his advice to the from reciting tachanun), when we enjoy Hashem’s T. Throughout all those years, when complimenting him for his desire to give his children the everything was bottled up and repressed inside them in best chinuch, suggested that he try another approach. Moshe approached his father and said: “Daddy, all the pain we have experienced in the past, as if our there is something on my mind - I would like to share it current difficulties are not enough? Until now, his children seemed to be happy with him, but now, one child after the next had begun finding As we sit on the floor crying over the churban, let us fault with him and criticising him. R’ Dov, happy to R’ Dov was a wonderful man who always wanted to have a listening ear, described his plight, telling his serve Hashem faithfully and raise a good family. negative feelings and eventually realise that, although the galus was painf

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Divrei Hisoirerus

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21 июля 2023 г.

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2

Темы: family_education, parsha_commentary