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Torah Lessons for the Home — tl korach 5786 — Korach-Chukas 5786

Выпуск: Torah Lessons for the Home — tl korach 5786 — Korach-Chukas 5786. Темы: family_education, relationships_shalom_bayit, parsha_commentary. Поисковые термины: воспитание, дети, семья, chinuch, family, חינוך, ילדים, משפחה, шалом байт, брак, отношения, shalom bayit, marriage, שלום בית, זוגיות, недельная глава, парша, parsha, פרשה, פרשת השבוע. ‫ב"ד‬ RABBI SHIMON GRUEN Torah Lessons for the Home GROWING FROM EXPERIENCE When Korach confronted Moshe Rabbeinu and accused him of raising himself up above all the other Yidden, he argued that “the entire congregation is holy.” Rashi explains that Korach was drawing attention to the fact that although only Moshe ascended Har Sinai, all the Yidden heard the Aseres Hadibros from Hashem. For example, I could be speaking to my husband and he walks away to get a drink and answers from the other room, or lies down on the couch and closes his eyes while I’m speaking, or he hears me out and then, instead of answering, he says goodbye and walks out the door. The question is, how do I stop myself from losing it so that I can create space for my husband to be himself and share, and also ultimately give me what I need — empathy, support, validation, and understanding so that our marriage can become strong and loving? ••• I actually wrote the above a few months ago and didn’t send it till now… so I’d like to share an update, because recently, I started seeing an amazing kallah teacher who is guiding me and slowly, I’m becoming more aware and starting to understand how I was sabotaging my own happiness by doing or saying the wrong things. Thank you so much You are clearly While you can learn ways to keep your stress gaining a tremendous levels down and avoid triggering situations, you may amount of awareness not be able to change your underlying tendency to and have made huge feel emotions more strongly than the average person. strides in understanding Since your husband can’t see this happening, from how to acknowledge his perspective it can appear that you are reacting in and even embrace your a way that is out of proportion to whatever happened personality and build to cause your outburst. Even if it Most likely he feels very uncomfortable about some is fairly clear that one spouse is doing certain things of the feelings you express, given that they can easily wrong, that doesn’t mean that the other spouse isn’t sound like c

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Torah Lessons for the Home

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19 июня 2026 г.

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Темы: family_education, relationships_shalom_bayit, parsha_commentary