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The Yeshiva.net — Behaalotecha 5782

Выпуск: The Yeshiva.net — Behaalotecha 5782. Темы: family_education, relationships_shalom_bayit, health_mind. Поисковые термины: воспитание, дети, семья, chinuch, family, חינוך, ילדים, משפחה, шалом байт, брак, отношения, shalom bayit, marriage, שלום בית, זוגיות, здоровье, психология, стресс, health, mental. Where it used to be that people believed in making sacrifices for something outside of themselves—say for https://www.theyeshiva.net/jewish/2451/print-view 3/4 6/16/22, 5:37 PM TheYeshiva.net marriage, family, children—today more and more people feel that they want to gaze at nothing but their own image for their entire life. But there was one exception described in the Talmud: https://www.theyeshiva.net/jewish/2451/print-view 2/4 6/16/22, 5:37 PM TheYeshiva.net ‫ וראיתיו שהוא יפה‬,‫ פעם אחת בא אדם אחד נזיר מן הדרום‬.‫ מימי לא אכלתי אשם נזיר טמא אלא אחד‬:‫ אמר שמעון הצדיק‬:‫ ב‬,‫נדרים ט‬ .‫ רועה הייתי לאבא בעירי‬:‫ מה ראית להשחית את שערך זה הנאה? מיד עמדתי ונשקתיו על ראשו‬,‫בעולם שאינו שלך‬ ."'‫ "איש כי יפליא לנדור נדר נזיר להזיר לה‬:‫ עליך הכתוב באומר‬.‫ירבו גוזרי נזירות בישראל‬ Shimon Hatzaddik related this story: Once, a young man a Nazirite came from the South [of Israel] to the Holy Temple. It was the Jewish Austrian-American psychoanalyst Heinz Kohut who first coined the phrase “NSD,” Narcissistic Personality Disorder, in 1968, describing a person who is in need of endless admiration and adulation; experiences a sense of superiority toward others; feels that all his expectations must be met. The Nazir was an individual who undertook, usually for a limited period of time, to observe special rules of holiness and abstinence: not to drink wine or other intoxicants (including anything made from grapes), not to have his hair cut and not to defile himself by contact with the dead. (In our generation too, there were too famous Jewish Nazirites—the Ragatchover Gaon, Rabbi Yosef Razin (1858- 1936), Rabbi of Dvinsk, Poland,[3] and Rabbi David Cohen, known as “Reb David Hanazir” (1887-1972), a student of Rabbi Avraham Isaac Kook, first chief rabbi of Israel, and the father of the present chief Rabbi of Haifa, Rabbi Shaar Yeshuv Cohen.) The Handsome Shepherd Now, Shimon Hatzaddik as a rule was critical of Nazirites. In the best-selling book The Culture of Narcissism: American Life in an Age of Diminishing Expectations, by the cultural historian Christopher Lasc

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The Yeshiva.net

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16 июня 2022 г.

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Темы: family_education, relationships_shalom_bayit, health_mind