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Torah Lessons for the Home — Toldos 5785

Выпуск: Torah Lessons for the Home — Toldos 5785. Темы: family_education, relationships_shalom_bayit, parsha_commentary. Поисковые термины: воспитание, дети, семья, chinuch, family, חינוך, ילדים, משפחה, шалом байт, брак, отношения, shalom bayit, marriage, שלום בית, זוגיות, недельная глава, парша, parsha, פרשה, פרשת השבוע. This letter (like space to process things alone, if you prefer), and then 5785 many others I receive) you thank him for his time, patience, consideration, and illustrates why it’s so understanding, I believe he’ll get less defensive and you’ll important for spouses to feel more understood — even if you’re not completely TOLDOS invest in improving their understanding of each other’s satisfied with how he responds. It’s clear from your letter that you were very So many misunderstandings and arguments are disappointed with the way your husband spoke to you simply the result of not realizing how different the other and, reading between the lines, that you feel he should : person is from who we are, and what the right way to come forward to make amends. Perhaps he sees things differently ••• and wonders if you aren’t making a mountain out of a molehill, and even thinks that he should be commended FOR Whenever we find ourselves at odds with someone, it’s crucial to acknowledge how we tend to view our for holding himself back from dismissing your feelings. If, however, the same kind of mistakes Now I’d like to address the central issue in your TOR AH are being made somewhat regularly, it’s understandable question which is, as you write, a major component if the person on the other end starts to wonder whether of marriage, as well as a very sensitive area for both you are taking enough care to avoid them. However, virtually every utmost into their marriage, and if one spouse feels that he dispute involves mistakes or she is putting much more in than the other, they should on both sides, and being remember that investments pay dividends and they will vulnerable and admitting your only gain from all that they invested. TORAH LESSONS FOR THE HOME: TOLDOS 5785 To contact Rabbi Gruen please call 718.841.6557 or e-mail rabbigruen@lehair.org To subscribe to receive the weekly essay, please email parshalessons@lehair.org Please feel free to send any questions, on this topic or any topic to RabbiGruen@Lehair.org The Rebbe R’ Yaakov David of Amshinov ztz”l exp

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Torah Lessons for the Home

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28 ноября 2024 г.

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Темы: family_education, relationships_shalom_bayit, parsha_commentary