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Torah Lessons for the Home — Shlach 5785

Выпуск: Torah Lessons for the Home — Shlach 5785. Темы: family_education, parsha_commentary. Поисковые термины: воспитание, дети, семья, chinuch, family, חינוך, ילדים, משפחה, недельная глава, парша, parsha, פרשה, פרשת השבוע. Before they leave, the Torah tells us how, “Moshe called Hoshea the son of Nun, Yehoshua,” and Rashi adds that: “He [Moshe] prayed on his [Yehoshua’s] behalf: May Hashem save you from the counsel of the spies.” The Gemara in Sotah (34b) notes that the name Yehoshua is a condensation of the words, “May God save you.” Why did only Yehoshua merit this special brachah? In fact, when a parent feels personally offended by a child’s disobedience, it’s usually a sign that the ego may need to take a step back." Being overly controlling of our children is problematic not only because it causes unnecessary friction, but also because it turns otherwise good children into disobedient ones. If it’s a question of which shirt to wear, and the of bar mitzvah, parents must be wary of meting out child has seven shirts and only likes four, it’s often punishment, as hitting an older child could provoke not worth making a big deal over it, especially if you them to strike back. The Pele Yoetz notes that this warning is applicable And as you seem to know well, sensitive children not only to children who have reached the age of take things so much more to heart than less sensitive bar mitzvah, but to any child, even much younger, types. He writes, “All SHEL ACH Furthermore, what was right at age two is not Jews are obligated to guide their children, while necessarily right at age five; and certainly what is they are still young and don’t yet have a yetzer right at age five is no longer going to be appropriate tov. It’s not unheard of for full of rage.Children need to moderate their behavior, HOME parents to still be imposing their opinions on grown- and if a child doesn’t [for example] want to eat a up children, and for older children to be expected to certain food, his father should force him to eat that continue to submit. If, however, the father ignores [this behavior] grown-up children of overly controlling parents rebel THE against their parents’ failure to recognize them as repeatedly, then he will end up accustoming his child FOR independent people and distance themselves from to behave in this way and his character traits will only those parents. However,

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Torah Lessons for the Home

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19 июня 2025 г.

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4

Темы: family_education, parsha_commentary