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Torah Lessons for the Home — Devarim 5784

Выпуск: Torah Lessons for the Home — Devarim 5784. Темы: family_education, relationships_shalom_bayit, health_mind, parsha_commentary. Поисковые термины: воспитание, дети, семья, chinuch, family, חינוך, ילדים, משפחה, шалом байт, брак, отношения, shalom bayit, marriage, שלום בית, זוגיות, здоровье, психология, стресс, health, mental. ‫ב"ד‬ RABBI SHIMON GRUEN Torah Lessons for the Home EVERYTHING AT THE RIGHT TIME In this week’s parshah, Moshe Rabbeinu rebukes Klal Yisrael for their lack of respect for their elders and leaders — for gathering together in a disorganized crowd in which people pushed themselves forward without showing deference to others. While the Torah was being given, it would have been commendable for Klal Yisrael to eagerly push forward, and being orderly during such a momentous occasion was a Thank you sign that they did not properly appreciate the enormity of what was Abba and Mommy happening. Even if one of the two is responsible for virtually the entire problem, it’s often still possible for the other to respond wisely and resolve things, or at least cause a big shift in the right direction — and this can make it easier for the other person to change as well. When you do so gently, HOME and is used to asking her mother or sisters (or friends) and without making demands about how she “must” for advice, and doesn’t realize that her husband respond, hopefully she will learn to understand what (who perhaps doesn’t come from such a close knit is important to you. communicate that having decisions made for you, In relationships where things have become without your input, is hurtful, and that from now on lopsided, people are sometimes tempted to “even you’d like to have a voice in all areas that are either things out” by stopping to give and provide and “mine” or “ours.” Clarify that your wife’s opinion is letting the other person come forward instead. haven’t unwittingly contributed to this situation by asking her or allowing her to take on a great deal Be’ezras Hashem you will be able to take the reins of responsibility, and only of your marriage and create a relationship where then complaining that she’s both you and your wife can flourish, with both of you taken things too far. TORAH LESSONS FOR THE HOME: DEVARIM 5784 To contact Rabbi Gruen please call 718.841.6557 or e-mail rabbigruen@lehair.org To subscribe to receive the weekly essay, pl

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Torah Lessons for the Home

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8 августа 2024 г.

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Темы: family_education, relationships_shalom_bayit, health_mind, parsha_commentary