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Torah Lessons for the Home — tl acharei-kedoshim 5786 — Acharei Mos-Kedoshim 5786

Выпуск: Torah Lessons for the Home — tl acharei-kedoshim 5786 — Acharei Mos-Kedoshim 5786. Темы: family_education, relationships_shalom_bayit, health_mind, parsha_commentary. Поисковые термины: воспитание, дети, семья, chinuch, family, חינוך, ילדים, משפחה, шалом байт, брак, отношения, shalom bayit, marriage, שלום בית, זוגיות, здоровье, психология, стресс, health, mental. ‫ב"ד‬ RABBI SHIMON GRUEN Torah Lessons for the Home RELATIONSHIP FUNDAMENTALS Following the deaths of Aharon Hakohen’s two sons, Nadav and Avihu, Hashem told Moshe Rabbeinu: “Al-yavo b’chol eis el-hakodesh—Do not come at all times into the Holy...” The Divrei Yisrael explains this as meaning that one should not come to serve Hashem when he has “all the time” in the world. So many relationships are harmed by one spouse telling the other, “When you’ll do xyz then I’ll do abc.” Even if the threatening Parshas spouse is “right.” If someone isn’t stepping up to their obligations toward you, this Acharei-Kedoshim shouldn’t be overlooked, but a marriage must never descend into a VOL. and mentchlichkeit to take a spouse’s feelings into In my experience, the most common reason why consideration even when that is not a black-and- one spouse hides or fails to share information from white obligation, if a husband or wife makes a decision the other is fear of the reaction and the repercussions in their own sphere, the other spouse doesn’t have an of sharing. Often, one spouse is convinced that the question is I don’t justify concealing things from one’s spouse, “hashkafic” and therefore involves both of them; “he and in fact I believe that there is virtually always a : can’t just do what he wants!” On closer investigation way to communicate effectively even with a spouse HOME it may emerge that the issue is in fact about image who has screamed, sulked, berated, and wept. Then, you should certainly to involve you, his decision not to do so has hurt you express your feelings, telling him how hurt you feel and maybe he should have known that, even without that he made this decision without involving you on you constantly telling him that you feel shut out of any level, and that he hid it from you. Tell your husband that you It’s possible that he is simply very uncommunicative know you haven’t always responded in the best way to things he’s shared with you in the past, and that in made me half an hour late f

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Torah Lessons for the Home

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24 апреля 2026 г.

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Темы: family_education, relationships_shalom_bayit, health_mind, parsha_commentary