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Torah Lessons for the Home — tl tetzaveh 5786

Выпуск: Torah Lessons for the Home — tl tetzaveh 5786. Темы: family_education, parsha_commentary. Поисковые термины: воспитание, дети, семья, chinuch, family, חינוך, ילדים, משפחה, недельная глава, парша, parsha, פרשה, פרשת השבוע. The passuk stresses that the pure oil is to be “kasis l’maor— crushed for lighting.” The Beis Yisrael of Ger comments that this shows us that even when we feel that it’s justified to “crush” someone, either by rebuking them or teaching them something they’re unaware of, we need to ensure that the result will be Dedicated in honor of “l’maor,” that the outcome will be to light up that person. Even if your But let’s suppose your rav tells your wife, “You rav does suggest that you raise this issue again, should be davening x, y, and then z, in that order.” you must take great care to do so in a way that can Should you now supervise her adherence to these : actually accomplish something and bring about instructions? You don’t mention any other has a chance to daven Shemoneh Esrei, you’d be areas in which you find her behavior problematic grateful if she had you in mind when she reaches in halachic terms, so I’m assuming that the way in the brachah where we ask for parnassah. concerned at all the unnecessary brachos, but the Gerrer Rebbe stopped him and told him that it was Hashem should help us find the ways to inspire far better for the boy to each other to shine, and to bring out the best in one become accustomed to another, in every area of our lives, especially in our making brachos, even service to Him! TORAH LESSONS FOR THE HOME: TETZAVEH 5786 To contact Rabbi Gruen please call 718.841.6557 or e-mail rabbigruen@lehair.org To subscribe to receive the weekly essay, please email parshalessons@lehair.org Please feel free to send any questions, on this topic or any topic to RabbiGruen@Lehair.org Having a wife who is genuinely lax in all her says “Refa’einu.” It will take time, but gradually she halachic observance is a far greater challenge that will internalize this new way in which you see her, you should be grateful you don’t have to address. Whatever you say, she gets it right is no more your responsibility make sure your wife does not hear it as a personal than it is to make sure that she serves Hashem criticism, not on the way she davens nor on properly in any other area of her life. In fact, it is precisely this concept of her was

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Torah Lessons for the Home

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27 февраля 2026 г.

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Темы: family_education, parsha_commentary