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Torah Lessons for the Home — Toldos 5786

Выпуск: Torah Lessons for the Home — Toldos 5786. Темы: relationships_shalom_bayit, health_mind, parsha_commentary. Поисковые термины: шалом байт, брак, отношения, shalom bayit, marriage, שלום בית, זוגיות, здоровье, психология, стресс, health, mental, בריאות, נפש, недельная глава, парша, parsha, פרשה, פרשת השבוע. When Eisav discovered that he had lost the bechorah to Yaakov, he was devastated — and yet, he had previously relinquished it so easily, as this week’s parshah tells us: “‘I am going to die so why do I need this bechorah?’ … and he ate and drank and got up and left, and Eisav despised the bechorah.” How can we understand this? To give an example: During an argument between spouses, one of them may feel certain that, “I just have to tell him what I think — I need to get this off my Parshas chest,” and the result will be a shattered relationship due to words spoken that Toldos can never be retracted. I’m a twenty-year-old bachur who comes from a chassidish background, and I’m currently getting back my footing so to speak after a rough patch that lasted over two years (though, interestingly, to most people I’m a really chashuver and heiliger chassidisher bachur...) Now, I was not actually religious for those two years although I looked it, and I was still QU learning full (ok, most of the) time. be gained from exposing people to unpleasant facts If it did, we would see secular marriages succeeding 5785 that they wouldn’t otherwise be aware of, especially like never before, but we know that the opposite is as they only affect a very small minority of people. A chassan and kallah at their engagement should great care not to fall into the trap of using each other feel an attraction to one another, an attraction that they to fulfill their own needs and never stopping to consider LESSONS should sustain throughout their marriage. But as much as this trap when a person is sunk in physical pleasure and that is a guideline, it is also a responsibility, as someone only lives for the next “hit.” People only get addicted to who is immature and craves unsuitable or harmful their own pleasure, never to someone else’s. Clearly, the Torah and our Gedolim will take many Only one who accepts Hashem’s supernatural rules different things into account when it comes to a for bringing the divine into our homes can remain above shidduch and marriage that a secular person would

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Torah Lessons for the Home

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20 ноября 2025 г.

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Темы: relationships_shalom_bayit, health_mind, parsha_commentary