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Torah Lessons for the Home — TL Shemos 5784

Выпуск: Torah Lessons for the Home — TL Shemos 5784. Темы: family_education, relationships_shalom_bayit, health_mind, parsha_commentary. Поисковые термины: воспитание, дети, семья, chinuch, family, חינוך, ילדים, משפחה, шалом байт, брак, отношения, shalom bayit, marriage, שלום בית, זוגיות, здоровье, психология, стресс, health, mental. The essays for the month of Teves is generously sponsored by Being personally involved in machlokes or sowing division The Schlesinger family between other people causes tremendous damage; conversely, in honor of their Simcha taking care to maintain peace and harmony between people is a tremendous segulah. ‫ב"ד‬ RABBI SHIMON GRUEN Torah Lessons for the Home THE SEGULAH OF HEALTHY CONNECTIONS Sefer Shemos begins with the words: “Va’eileh shemos— And these are the names…” According to the Kli Yakar, the letter “vav” at the start of the passuk is the “letter of life,” a letter that connotates attachment and connection, which hints at the middos hayesod and the purity of a Jewish life. Looking forward to your answer, thank you Being in a situation where someone is shouting at you and trying to dictate your actions is definitely very challenging and upsetting, and knowing how to respond to people who seem to be trying to control you is important in many relationships, not just those with one’s in-laws. Another disclaimer is that while any issue of “control” needs to be dealt with responsibly, I sincerely believe that for the most part, parents do not have bad intentions and those who are violating their children’s boundaries or intruding into their business don’t mean to cause pain or harm. ••• While of course children of any age must always take the greatest of care to be respectful to parents regardless of how strained a relationship becomes, parents of married children should know, and should be told if they don’t, that interfering in their married children’s lives is unacceptable and wrong. when a parent sees that a child who has expressed his distress at control issues is still very respectful in general, This applies to any parent-child relationship, even in and is trying his best to observe the mitzvos of kibbud av cases where the parents are financially supporting their va’eim, this itself can improve the situation. While it may be tempting to assume that one can ••• purchase the right to control, it is wrong to try to do so A

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Torah Lessons for the Home

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5 января 2024 г.

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Темы: family_education, relationships_shalom_bayit, health_mind, parsha_commentary