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Torah Lessons for the Home — Pekudei 5785

Выпуск: Torah Lessons for the Home — Pekudei 5785. Темы: family_education, relationships_shalom_bayit, health_mind, parsha_commentary. Поисковые термины: воспитание, дети, семья, chinuch, family, חינוך, ילדים, משפחה, шалом байт, брак, отношения, shalom bayit, marriage, שלום בית, זוגיות, здоровье, психология, стресс, health, mental. According to the Sforno, this hints that the value of the items used in the building of the Mishkan was quite limited, as well as being significantly less than the value of the precious items used in the construction of either the First or the Second Beis Hamikdash. ‫בנים עוסקים בתורה ומצוות‬ Often, people experiencing issues with shalom bayis assume that “more” ‫תהא נפשו צרורה בצרור החיים‬ will solve the problems — more gifts, more helping out in the home, more ‫עדי נזכה לקיום הפסוק יקיצו וירננו‬ compliments... However, if things were really that simple, one could take a husband who is dissatisfied with a wife who “isn’t frum enough” and a wife who is dissatisfied with a husband who “isn’t frum enough,” and marry them to each other for a “happily ever after” outcome — only in real life, it doesn’t work like that. While Once we internalize the fact that the other person you may discuss anything that bothers you with isn’t exactly like us and that it’s okay, it’s far easier to your spouse, and should feel comfortable doing so, it avoid becoming defensive each time the other person should always be with the recognition that they are complains, asks us to change, or behaves in ways that entitled to do things as they prefer in any area that bothers us. ••• ••• There is of course a vast difference between asking Your letter doesn’t provide any clues regarding to respectfully for someone to change something, and what your wife is objecting to in the area of frumkeit, attempting to prove that they are obligated to change so I cannot comment on whether her complaints are because they’re wrong and you’re right. Furthermore, just as you don’t enjoy feeling that ••• she looks down on you for being “not frum enough,” she probably doesn’t enjoy feeling that you look down But let’s assume that what you write is accurate on her for being “excessively frum.” Coming to terms — that the issues are minor and you didn’t deceive with the idea that there really are certain areas in TOR AH your wife in any way when you were dating. “Even if I improve in th

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Torah Lessons for the Home

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27 марта 2025 г.

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Темы: family_education, relationships_shalom_bayit, health_mind, parsha_commentary