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Torah Lessons for the Home — Vayeishev 5785

Выпуск: Torah Lessons for the Home — Vayeishev 5785. Темы: family_education, relationships_shalom_bayit, health_mind, parsha_commentary. Поисковые термины: воспитание, дети, семья, chinuch, family, חינוך, ילדים, משפחה, шалом байт, брак, отношения, shalom bayit, marriage, שלום בית, זוגיות, здоровье, психология, стресс, health, mental. ‫ב "ד‬ RABBI SHIMON GRUEN Torah Lessons for the Home TAKING RESPONSIBILITY WITH PRIDE In this week’s parshah, Yosef’s brothers plot to kill him, mockingly adding, “Now we’ll see what will come of his dreams.” The Baal Hafla’ah (in the name of his grandfather) notes that Rashi states that the words, “We’ll see what will come of his dreams” were actually spoken by a Bas Kol, a heavenly voice, which was heard only by Reuven and not by the other brothers. My husband and I have had our ups and downs and he hasn’t always treated me so well, also because I used to have terrible mood swings that he didn’t know how to deal with, and so he sees me as “damaged goods” and himself as a tzaddik for putting up with me and investing so much to set me straight. Obviously I don’t know any of the details of what happened with your relative and her husband, but such situations, where one spouse “loses the feeling of There are also other topics that are better not attraction” to the other are not so uncommon either, discussed between husband and wife, despite the unfortunately. However, Even if you think something could be achieved by even though to you it seemed inexplicable (why did a discussion, you have to weigh that achievement her husband initially feel attracted to her and later against the distress and possible argument that not?), there was certainly a lot more to it than this will result, and it’s usually simply not worth it. saying things like, “I didn’t really want to marry him/ her in the first place, but I felt I had no choice.” ••• Once a couple is married, however, attraction So, your husband has placed the ball firmly in your becomes something a lot deeper than the initial court, and that can feel like a huge responsibility. can look at him as someone so deeply affected by If your relative and her husband reached the the way you behave that he feels overwhelmed FOR point where they were no longer attracted to one and powerless to change the dynamics of your another, chances are that it wasn’t some bolt out relationship. The therapy roo

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Torah Lessons for the Home

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20 декабря 2024 г.

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Темы: family_education, relationships_shalom_bayit, health_mind, parsha_commentary