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Torah Lessons for the Home — TL Vayikra 5784

Выпуск: Torah Lessons for the Home — TL Vayikra 5784. Темы: family_education, relationships_shalom_bayit, parsha_commentary. Поисковые термины: воспитание, дети, семья, chinuch, family, חינוך, ילדים, משפחה, шалом байт, брак, отношения, shalom bayit, marriage, שלום בית, זוגיות, недельная глава, парша, parsha, פרשה, פרשת השבוע. ‫ב"ד‬ RABBI SHIMON GRUEN Torah Lessons for the Home LITTLE PEOPLE IN THE BIG PICTURE Parshas Vayikra begins with Hashem calling to Moshe Rabbeinu, but with Hashem’s Name missing: “Vayikra el-Moshe...” The Meor Einayim comments that the small “aleph” at the end of “vayikra” hints at Hashem’s presence as He hides Himself and only provides hints of His constant involvement in our lives. It’s normal for children to keep forgetting to In fact, it’s essential that the underlying do the right thing and to need many months and loving relationship remains unchanged, because even years of reminders and encouragement children (in fact, everyone) need the love in order and prizes. Using positive reinforcement is hard work, of course, and there are also areas where it seems ••• that even if a potch isn’t warranted, some form Of course, there is a time and a place for a 5784 of “tough love” might work better than incentives potch, and anyone who says that a potch is never VAYIKRA and compliments. Nice Guy not strike an older child, and the meforshim add THE isn’t working, so from now on, I’m not doing that that the temperament of the child must also be anymore, and maybe she’ll finally realize that she taken into account, even before they officially FOR can’t get away with (not cooking supper/being become over-age for the potch. to really grasp the idea that “mine is mine and When it comes to chinuch, parents who yours is yours.” have tried all the types of positive incentives for In genuinely dangerous situations, of course, a a specific behavior they are trying to encourage potch is definitely a valid response. It’s a shame when not only the child is of getting distracted by the details, and remind confused but also the parent, who ends up grasping ourselves that it’s none other than Hashem Who is at the tool that will bring the fastest short-term painting that picture for us, we’ll find it much easier results without stopping to consider whether his to improve our relationships with our children and response was warranted spouses, and to invite siyat

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Torah Lessons for the Home

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22 марта 2024 г.

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Темы: family_education, relationships_shalom_bayit, parsha_commentary